Now here’s a subject to make even the more resilient of artists, blanch and go weak at the knees, never mind the newbie. Why are we so afraid of selling do you think? Well, come to think of it, it’s not necessarily about selling is it? More often than not it’s about just even showing our work. It’s so confronting, so challenging emotionally. Now why would that be? Well for one thing we have a lot invested in the whole thing. For some its the cost of the materials – the time and effort and feeling we can’t charge enough to get all that back. Rather more than this however, it is about the investment of ourselves. When we put a painting on show, there is always that questioning of our self-worth.
- Is it good enough?
- Who, me exhibit… I couldn’t possibly, I mean I’m not really an artist ……am I?
- Will anybody like it?
- Will anybody like it enough to buy it
- And then if they do – oh .. I don’t think I can possibly part with it – look at all the time and effort I put into it, it’s my baby.
Our art works are our children – they are creations that we put a lot of time and effort into. However like all children, at some point we must let them go.
I think that many of the things Kahil Gibran said about children can be related to our art –
“Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life’s longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.”
As do our art works. And this ………….
“You are the bows from which your children
as living arrows are sent forth.
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,
and He bends you with His might
that His arrows may go swift and far.”
Our creations are made to be released into the world, to be shared with others so our unique vision may be shared with the world
This weeks Question: What artworks haven’t you let go of yet that you could?
Next Week Look For: What makes an artist successful?